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The Humility Code


"The humble path to the beautiful life," is what David Brooks summarizes at the conclusion of The Road to Character.  Here are the fifteen points of the Humility Code.

  1. "The best life is oriented around the increasing excellence of the soul and is nourished by moral joy, the quiet sense of gratitude and tranquility that comes as a byproduct of successful moral struggle."
  2. "The long road to character begins with an accurate understanding of our nature, and the core of that understanding is that we are flawed creatures."
  3. "We are also splendidly endowed."
  4. "Humility is the greatest virtue."
  5. "Pride is the central vice."
  6. "The struggle against sin and for virtue is the central drama of life."
  7. "Character is built in the course of your inner confrontation."
  8. "The things that lead us astray are short term . . . The things we call character endure over the long term."
  9. "Everybody needs redemptive assistance from outside."
  10. "We are all ultimately saved by grace."
  11. "Defeating weakness often means quieting the self."
  12. "Wisdom starts with epistemological modesty."
  13. "No good life is possible unless it is organized around a vocation."
  14. "The best leader tries to lead along the grain of human nature rather than go against it."
  15. "A mature person possesses a settled unity of purpose."

This section is filled with much rich material, wonderful quotes, and deep allusions to our moral tradition.  I will be mining it for sermons, etc., for years.

I hope this series of blog posts on moral character in the midst of our current national catastrophe has been helpful in grasping what we must do in order to reweave the social fabric and restore the moral order.

"Out of Balance" was the previous post in this blog series.

Out of Balance


David Brooks uses Leo Tolstoy's Death of Ivan Ilyich to comment on how the pendulum has swung too far with the change in moral climate.  He writes, "Many of us are in Ivan Ilyich's position, recognizing that the social system we are part of pushes us to live out one sort of insufficient external life. . . .  The answer must be to stand against, at least in part, the prevailing winds of culture."

So, what's wrong with the current moral climate?  He lists some overarching problems and focuses on a few areas of society.  First, the overarching problems.

We have become "less morally articulate."  We are more materialistic.  More individualistic.  Less empathetic.  

We have become "a more competitive meritocracy."  He writes:

You have, like me, spent your life trying to make something of yourself, trying to have an impact, trying to be reasonably successful in this world.  That's meant a lot of competition and a lot of emphasis on individual achievement--doing reasonably well in school, getting into the right college, landing the right job, moving toward success and status.

 What results is a culture of busyness where we fail to take the time to cultivate our moral and spiritual sides.  I thought of Richard Rohr's writing while reading this section.

The meaning of the term character itself has changed, away from an embodiment of the traditional virtues to now "describe traits like self-control, grit, resilience, and tenacity."  

Brooks does not think that social media has ruined us, as the damage was largely already done, but it has had "three effects on the moral ecology."  First, "It is harder to attend to the soft, still voices that come from the depths."  Second, "Social media allow a more self-referential information environment."  And finally, it "encourages a broadcasting personality."

He spends a few pages on changes in parenting that he dislikes, but I thought those arguments were overwrought.

In the final post of this series on his book, we'll look at what he calls "the humble path to the beautiful life."

The previous post in this series discussed self-actualization by looking at Katherine Graham.  And the post before that reviewed this change in moral culture.



So, in the middle of the twentieth century the moral culture changed, according to David Brooks.  He writes, "Each moral climate is a collective response to the problems of the moment."  The new moral culture which prized self-esteem, authenticity, and expression "helped correct some deep social injustices."  To illustrate he chooses Katharine Graham.

She was raised in an era when girls were "expected to be quiet, reserved, and correct."  The Stepford Wife idea.  Her husband belittled her and had many affairs.  When he committed suicide in 1963 she was elected president of the Washington Post Company and assumed she'd hold the job for a season before handing it off to her children.  

But, she thrived in the job and led the Post to national prominence.  The same year she took over the Post, Betty Friedan published The Feminine Mystique.  

Graham illustrates why the moral culture needed to change.  Under the old culture it was too common that a woman like Graham would not have thrived.  Many people needed to develop a higher sense of self.  Brooks writes, "The emphasis on self-actualization and self-esteem gave millions of women a language to articulate and cultivate self-assertion, strength, and identity."

Last week I watched When We Rise on ABC (still marveling at that), a miniseries on the LGBT rights movement that focused on Cleve Jones and some of our other grassroots activists in San Francisco.  That show narrated the importance of our rise, our self-expression, our demands.  

Fortunately, Brooks does not fault either moral climate.  He thinks we need balance and to recover some of the value that was lost when moral realism was cast aside.  The main reason is that the old tradition gave us a longtested method for the formation of souls.

At its worst the new culture expresses something like these lyrics from High School Musical (which Brooks quotes): "The answers are all inside me/ All I've got to do is believe.

I've never liked that sort of idea, as much as I've embraced liberation and authenticity.  Maybe growing up in the more traditional heartland and remaining rooted in the church has helped to push against individualism?  My memoir, which I hope to publish this year, is about finding the courage to be my authentic self, but is a story contained within my culture, church, and family.  I have navigated a path to losing neither.

In the next post I'll write a little more about the ways he believes we've gotten out of balance.

The previous post in this series was about the change in moral culture that occurred in the 20th century.

A Change in Moral Culture

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The final chapter of David BrooksThe Road to Character is a rich and complex summary and an discussion of why and how our culture changed.

He opens by contrasting Johnny Unitas with Joe Namath.  Both grew up in the same area of western Pennyslvania and only a decade apart, but were fundamentally different people.  Unitas said "I always figured being a little dull was part of being pro."  Namath was anything but dull.  Brooks explains that Unitas viewed football as a job that was not fundamentally different from a factory worker or plumber.  Namath engaged in self-promotion.

Reading this section made me think of Tom Landry.  I miss his style of coaching.  Dressed in a suit like a professional, he was generally stoic in his response to the what was happening on the field.  I don't really care for the way most coaches dress and behave these days.

So, when did this change occur?  Brooks says that it wasn't the Baby Boomers and the upheavals of the late 1960's, like many people think.  No, the change occurred in what Brokaw called the "Greatest Generation."  In the post-war world they promoted a new culture of self-esteem and authenticity and abandoned the tradition of moral realism.

Brooks cites a number of examples, like Norman Vincent Peale's bestselling The Power of Positive Thinking.  Interesting, I read back in November that Peale was Trump's favorite minister and even performed his first wedding.

He writes that this change was a response to its time and that there were good reasons and results for the change, but I want to write about those in the next post.  But with the change "A moral vocabulary was lost and along with it a methodology for the formation of souls."

Key to the tradition of moral realism, according to Brooks, was a grasp of human limitations.  

Some of these limitations are epistemological: reason is weak and the world is complex.  We cannot really grasp the complexity of the world or the full truth about ourselves.  Some of these limitations are moral: There are bugs in our souls that lead us toward selfishness and pride, that tempt us to put lower loves over higher loves.  Some of the limitations are psychological: We are divided within ourselves, and many of the most urgent motions of our minds are unconscious and only dimly recognized by ourselves.  Some of them are social: We are not self-completing creatures.  To thrive we have to throw ourselves into a state of dependence--on others, on institutions, on the divine.  

Brooks does not believe we need to abandon the new culture and return to the old one, but that we need to find greater balance between the two in order to respond to the moral needs of our time.  But more on that in a future post, in which I'll also share some personal reflections.

The previous post in this series was about "sweet gestures of self-improvement," focusing on Montaigne.

Sweet gestures of self-improvement


In his chapter on Samuel Johnson, David Brooks contrasts the English writer with the French essayist Michel de Montaigne explaining that the two of them represent two different styles of goodness--Johnson struggled and suffered to become good, while Montaigne had a genial nature.  Of course they were born into different strata of society.

Brooks writes, "Johnson sought to reform himself through direct assault and earnest effort.  Montaigne was more amused by himself and his foibles, and sought virtue through self-acceptance and sweet gestures of self-improvement."

Montaigne retired from public life and discovered "that his own mind would not allow tranquility.  He found his mind, fragmented, liquid, and scattershot."  So, for him, "writing was an act of self-integration."

Brooks writes, "Montaigne's theory was that much of the fanaticism and violence he saw around him was caused by the panic and uncertainty people feel because they can't grasp the elusiveness within themselves."  Essay writing, which he largely invented, was a way of exploring and integrating himself.

Throughout this book, David Brooks has been exploring a cultural tradition in which people were more humble.  He locates that attitude in Montaigne.  Brooks describes him thus--"a low but accurate view of one's own nature plus a capacity for wonder and astonishment at the bizarreness of creation equals a calming spirit of equipoise."

Practical, moral wisdom


He was "a cross between Martin Luther and Oscar Wilde."  So writes David Brooks of Samuel Johnson.  Johnson, a "gross, disheveled, and ugly" man "more or less wrote himself to virtue."  Brooks contends that it was through "writing and mental effort [that] he constructed a coherent worldview."  Johnson himself contended that "It is always a writer's duty to make the world better."

Johnson was part of an influential circle of friends and writers--Burke, Smith, Goldsmith, etc.  Of this group Brooks claims:

These were humanists, their knowledge derived from their deep reading of the great canonical texts of Western civilization.  They were heroic, but they practiced an intellectual form of heroism, not a military one.  They tried to see the world clearly, resisting the self-deceptions caused by the vanity and perversities in their own nature.  They sought a sort of practical, moral wisdom that would give them inner integrity and purpose.

Johnson believed that most problems were moral problems, not fixed by politics or changing social conditions.  "The essential human act is the act of making strenuous moral decisions."  Literature could aide in moral improvement and broaden our experiences of moral situations.


I'm a panexperientialist physicalist, not a panpsychist but similar. Here is a recent philosophical defense of panpsychism in which the author concludes that while it might sound crazy, it is probably also the best explanation.

Pride & Fear of Missing Out


The next chapter in David Brooks' The Road to Character is surprisingly about St. Augustine.  For a book that had mostly focused on early and mid-twentieth century Americans, this seemed strange.  He never explains why he discusses Augustine, but it seems to be because he views the philosopher and saint as one of the creators of the worldview being explored in the book.

The one interesting point about Augustine which I had not quite heard this way before is that his story is a "renunciation of the whole ethos of self-cultivation."  Brooks explains, "He came to conclude that the way to inner joy is not through agency and action, it's through surrender and receptivity to God."

Brooks had been discussing the sin of pride, and guess who his paradigm example of pride is?  Donald Trump.  This book was published in 2015, and according to the acknowledgements took 4 1/2 years to write, so likely this paragraph was written well before Trump ran for president:

Pride can come in bloated form.  This is the puffed-up Donald Trump style of pride. This person wants people to see visible proof of his superiority.  He wants to be on the VIP list.  In conversation, he boasts, he brags.  He needs to see his superiority reflected in other people's eyes.  He believes that this feeling of superiority will eventually bring him peace.


One of the many things that surprised me the last two years was that anyone took Trump seriously.  I had always viewed him as a buffoon.  A rich buffoon who gaudy decor, bad fashion sense, and outsized ego could be entertaining in small doses.  What a shock to discover that a large number of people thought of him as a serious businessman with insights on public policy!

Of course we really discovered that he wasn't an entertaining buffoon at all but a moral reprobate and incredibly dangerous person.

Another insight from Brooks' chapter on Augustine is this about the current fixation on the "fear of missing out."

Augustine's feeling of fragmentation has its modern corollary in the way many contemporary young people are plagued by a frantic fear of mission out.  The world has provided them with a superabundance of neat things to do.  Naturally, they hunger to seize every opportunity and taste every experience.  They want to grab all the goodies in front of them.  They want to say yes to every product in the grocery store.  They are terrified of missing out on anything that looks exciting.  But by not renouncing any of them they spread themselves thin.  What's worse, they turn themselves into goodie seekers, greedy for every experience and exclusively focused on self.  If you live in this way, you turn into a shrewd tactician, making a series of cautious semicommitments without really surrendering to some larger purpose.  You lose the ability to say a hundred noes for the sake of one overwhelming and fulfilling yes.

The previous post in this series discussed how love reorients the soul.


Utopia: A New Translation (Norton Critical Edition)Utopia: A New Translation by Thomas More
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Every reader will encounter some statement to admire. Every reader will encounter some statement to abhor.

A most intriguing work. I'm unsure how More was able to rise to such prominence in England after writing such a book, even despite the way he cautiously couched it.

I was also intrigued by the translator's note that this book "helped to make [North Americans] what we are today be determining, not our immediate institutions, but the level of our expectations."

Also intriguing were the ideas that did not fit with More's own history, including the defense of religious toleration in the book. More tortured heretics when he gained power.

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Reorienting the Soul


And Brooks continues discussing the ways that love reorients in the soul, in what may be the best few pages of the book.

First, love humbles us.  "Love is like an invading army that reminds you that you are not master of your own house."  "Love is a surrender.  You expose your deepest vulnerabilities and give up your illusions of self-mastery."

Love "decenters the self."  "A person in love finds that the ultimate riches are not inside, they are out there, in the beloved and in the sharing of a destiny with the beloved."

"Love infuses people with a poetic temperament."  Love is not utilitarian.  "To be in love is to experience hundreds of small successive feelings that you never quite experienced in that way before."  "Love is submission, not decision."

"Love opens up the facility for spiritual awareness.  It is an altered state of consciousness."

"Love impels people to service."  "In no other commitment are people so likely to slip beyond the logic of self-interest and unconditional commitments that manifest themselves in daily acts of care."


I have always spoken of how marriage is a spiritual discipline, and I experience parenthood as such as well.  Being a dad has done more to make me a better person than anything I've ever done precisely because it is the one thing that most aggressively works against my own self-interest.